Trusted Advisor 2.0

A few years ago, I identified the ten characteristics of a Trusted Advisor. As I look back at that list, I see it has become more like the price of admission. With the radical changes that have taken place in the selling landscape, while every one of the ten attributes remain valid, they are no longer sufficient.
What has remained true through time however, are the two words themselves: trusted and advisor. But what these words mean and why they are so essential today has changed.
It’s not a matter of creating a “from to to” list, and it is more than reframing and reordering. Customers have transformed what they demand from a trusted advisor. Customers are more cynical, and earning their trust has never been more challenging or critical. Advice has advanced from not only solving problems but anticipating and finding problems.
Let’s profile today’s Trusted Advisor:
- They come to the table as equals
- They build trust based on consistent trustworthy behaviors, transparency in their dealings, and expertise in their understanding of the dynamics of their customers’ businesses
- They bring expertise in insights, ideas, and resources and guide customers in what to pay attention to
- They make connections personally with customers and connect the dots to create integrated solutions
- They collaborate with customers to solve business challenges and produce business outcomes with shared solutions
- They minimize risk through understanding the risks customers are focused on and show proof of value and how they mitigate the risk
- They build consensus across the customer decision group and organization
- They develop deep contacts and multiple coaches in a customer organization, including executive relationships
- They are “expert teachers,” learning from and with their customers
- They demonstrate emotional courage to continue in the face no’s and engage in frank conversations with their customers and teams
No list is complete, and with the rate of change, no list is indelible. What would you change? What would you add? Share your thoughts below.

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